Tuesday, May 19, 2009

I like this quote, seems fitting this week...

"Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while so that we can see life with a clearer view again."

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Hodad's with Ron

Ron came to town this weekend for a concert so on Friday night
we took him to Rocky's Crown Pub - a delicious burger joint in town.
When he looked it up on Yelp he saw the many reviews comparing
Rocky's to Hodad's...the other delicious burger joint in town.
Ron decided to take the ultimate San Diego Burger challenge so we
headed over to Hodad's today. In the end it was decided that
they are both damn good burgers and since they are completely different,
there can be no comparison.
Yummmmmy!
James, Ronnie & Danny pose after finishing
double bacon cheeseburgers.

Ron and his favorite sister!
James' ink for Porter

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Fiesta Island - 3/31/09




In loving memory of Melissa Porter

April 22, 1984 - May 8, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)©Copyright 1998-2007